Expressions

We are all expressions of the Infinite Consciousness, which is love.

 

The human race has developed a form of collective schizophrenia in which we are not only the slaves to this imposed thought behaviour, but we are also the police force of it.

The reason most people don't express their individuality and actually deny it, is not fear of what prime ministers think of us or the head of the federal reserve. 

 

It's what their families and their friends down at the bar are going to think of them.

You don't comb the mirror, you comb your own hair and the mirror changes.

The solution that we crave to get out of this conditioning. It is to realise, if we all say what we truly feel is right and not be in fear of what other people think or how we will be perceived, then what happens is As above So below. We find a true and right balance of our own lives and that of others, not controlling but freedom of thoughts to gain a deeper understanding of our true self and emotional expression.

Dont judge each day with the harvest you reap,  but by the seeds that you plant.

 

People who must defend their rightness are often preoccupied with imagined shortcomings of others and perceived attacks form them. They often feel betrayed by others. They justify their criticizing and blaming others to avoid the insight that they themselves might be in error. They fear losing power and will use anger to keep others from asserting themselves. Life becomes miserable for the family because it is fear and control based.

It's part of being human to want to have our way. We all have a touch of the need to be right and control others. We all have areas of self-righteousness where we believe that we know better than others. To the extent that this need to be right and resulting defensiveness permeates one's life, the less connected you will be with others.

It's sad, but true, the more of you have of the following characteristics of rigidity of thought, the more anger and disapproval you will get from others:

An insatiable need to be right which masks a deep fear of being wrong
A high need to expect others to see it your way
An inability to say, "I don't know." and "I was wrong."
Feeling threatened when new ideas come from other people
Fear of hearing new information that threatens your beliefs
Fear of letting go; need to be in control of self at all times
Preoccupation with winning approval from others
The need to always be seen as tough, powerful and strong
Pride at always being rational and logical
Uncomfortable with expressing sensitive feelings
Shame and fear of being vulnerable and insecure
Fear and severe discomfort about having bad feelings
Believe that others who disagree with you are wrong and should "just get over it"
Use charm, anger, withdrawal or blaming to settle arguments
Work on your weaknesses and be aware in the fact that the reason you are working on your weaknesses are because you want to be truly balanced.